{"id":4378,"date":"2024-08-05T00:14:46","date_gmt":"2024-08-04T20:14:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cari.az\/?p=4378"},"modified":"2024-08-05T00:14:47","modified_gmt":"2024-08-04T20:14:47","slug":"ail%c9%99d%c9%99-psixoloji-muhit-xosb%c9%99xtlik-haqqinda-dusunc%c9%99-rovs%c9%99n-n%c9%99c%c9%99fov","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cari.az\/?p=4378","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259d\u0259 psixoloji m\u00fchit&#8230; Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik haqq\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 &#8211; R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n N\u0259c\u0259fov"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/family.gov.az\/az\/ejournals\/ailede-psixoloji-muhit-xosbextlik-haqqinda-dusunce\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259si<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Psixoloq yana\u015fmas\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>M\u00f6vzu: &#8220;Ail\u0259d\u0259 psixoloji m\u00fchit&#8230; Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik haqq\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>M\u00fc\u0259llif: R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n N\u018fC\u018fFOV, Klinik psixoloq, psixoterapevt<br><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi onun qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259r\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259 insan\u0131n se\u00e7imidir v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rdir. Ail\u0259ni qorumaq v\u0259t\u0259nini qorumaqd\u0131r. Ail\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259t d\u00f6vl\u0259tin\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259tdir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin n\u00fcmun\u0259vi v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin formala\u015fmas\u0131nda emosional d\u0259st\u0259k maddi d\u0259st\u0259kd\u0259n daha vacibdir. Emosional rifah \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r x\u00fcsusil\u0259 vacibdir. &#8220;Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 niy\u0259 vacibdir?\u201d sual\u0131na cavab ver\u0259rk\u0259n insanlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi tamamlanmas\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259nin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00fcst\u0259qilliyi f\u0259rdi m\u0259suliyy\u0259tin inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259\u015fviq edir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259nal\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r m\u0259nsub olmaq ehtiyac\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259nziml\u0259yir. M\u0259nsub olmaq insanlar\u0131n bir-birini qeyd-\u015f\u0259rtsiz sevm\u0259sidir. \u0130nsan m\u0259nsub oldu\u011fu zamana v\u0259 m\u0259kana aiddir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin a\u00e7ar\u0131d\u0131r. Qay\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 ifad\u0259 olunan fikirl\u0259r faydal\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259dir, m\u00fcbahis\u0259 deyil. Ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda sevginin var olmas\u0131 m\u00f6vcudluq hissidir. Valideynl\u0259r h\u0259m \u00f6vladlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, h\u0259m d\u0259 bir-birl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00f6vcud olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Valideynl\u0259r davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 n\u00fcmun\u0259 yaratmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u00dcnsiyy\u0259t v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f ail\u0259d\u0259 sevginin m\u00fchafiz\u0259\u00e7il\u0259ridirl\u0259r. Empatiya quraraq \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tin v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n keyfiyy\u0259tini yaratmaq olur. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alacaq hadis\u0259l\u0259rin t\u0259m\u0259li qoyulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, daha sonra in\u015fa olunmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi h\u0259r k\u0259s eyni formada ifad\u0259 edir, amma b\u0259db\u0259xtliyin hekay\u0259si \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir. Xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259l\u0259r eyni hissi ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, amma b\u0259db\u0259xt ail\u0259l\u0259rin hiss etdikl\u0259ri eyni deyil.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsan m\u00fchit\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fan canl\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin i\u015ftirak etdiyi, maddi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259y\u0259 bildiyi sosial m\u00fchitdir. Ail\u0259nin h\u0259r biri \u00fczv\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus emosional davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bu sosial m\u00fchitd\u0259 ifad\u0259 edir. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik v\u0259 b\u0259db\u0259xtlik aras\u0131nda m\u0259saf\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0131sad\u0131r ki, ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 bu s\u0259rh\u0259ddir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t ixtilaf\u0131 v\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rind\u0259 fiziki v\u0259 psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259tin yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. H\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t probleml\u0259ri v\u0259 psixoloji uy\u011funsuzluq yaranm\u0131\u015f zorak\u0131l\u0131q m\u00fchitinin ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c n\u00f6qt\u0259sidir. Ail\u0259daxili uy\u011funsuzluq v\u0259 ail\u0259daxili ya\u015fanan probleml\u0259r depressiya, patoloji narahatl\u0131q, yuxusuzluq, post travmatik stress pozuntusu v\u0259 cinsi probleml\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcc v\u0259 t\u0259zyiq t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259kl\u0259 fiziki v\u0259 ya psixoloji z\u0259r\u0259r ver\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn davran\u0131\u015flar kimi m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilir. M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rind\u0259n birin\u0259 ail\u0259nin dig\u0259r \u00fczvl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n psixoloji v\u0259 fiziki h\u00fccumudur. Ail\u0259d\u0259 emosional v\u0259 iqtisadi zorak\u0131l\u0131qlar da \u015f\u0259xsi \u00e7\u0259tin hala sal\u0131r. &#8220;\u00c7\u0259tin hal\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n formala\u015fmas\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u0259cburiyy\u0259td\u0259n yaran\u0131r. H\u0259yat keyfiyy\u0259tinin yax\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda emosional v\u0259 iqtisadi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r ayd\u0131n olmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin idar\u0259\u00e7iliyind\u0259 ail\u0259nin b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00fczvl\u0259rinin i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259min edilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>R\u0259q\u0259msal d\u00fcnyada kommunikasiya texnologiyalar\u0131n\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fayi\u0259t olunan m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259ri h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 aras\u0131nda x\u0259yan\u0259t v\u0259 aldatma fenomen olaraq m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir. X\u00fcsusil\u0259 mobil telefon, internet v\u0259 sosial median\u0131n geni\u015f yay\u0131lmas\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n aldatma v\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259nin ki\u00e7ik d\u00f6vl\u0259t oldu\u011funu q\u0259bul ediriks\u0259, u\u015faqlar da ail\u0259nin \u00f6z\u0259yidir. Ail\u0259nin psixoloji sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 faydal\u0131 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar yeti\u015fdirm\u0259sin\u0259 t\u00f6hf\u0259l\u0259r verir. H\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ya\u015famaq h\u00fcququ var. H\u0259r bir u\u015faq sa\u011flam m\u00fchitd\u0259 m\u0259d\u0259ni v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n inki\u015faf etm\u0259lidir. Valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259rt\u0259r\u0259fli inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259k, milli v\u0259 \u00fcmumb\u0259\u015f\u0259ri d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 uy\u011fun, humanizm v\u0259 \u0259xlaqi prinsipl\u0259rl\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259d\u0259 i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131 olan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r psixoloji sa\u011flaml\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 fikirl\u0259rind\u0259 v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda v\u0259rdi\u015f\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi h\u0259r k\u0259s eyni formada ifad\u0259 edir, amma b\u0259db\u0259xtliyin hekay\u0259si \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir. Xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259l\u0259r eyni hissi ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, amma b\u0259db\u0259xt ail\u0259l\u0259rin hissi etdikl\u0259ri eyni deyil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8220;Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 inam v\u0259 h\u0259mr\u0259ylik qurulmazsa, \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r g\u00fccl\u00fc stress v\u0259 g\u0259rginlik ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259 insanlar \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259 etibar ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 \u0259laq\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n da hissl\u0259rinin formala\u015fmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. \u015e\u0259xsin psixikas\u0131nda yaranm\u0131\u015f b\u00f6hranlar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn vacib hesab etm\u0259diyi ail\u0259 m\u00fchitl\u0259rin\u0259 reaksiya kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirilir. Ail\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r hissinin formala\u015fmas\u0131 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcbut etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hesab olunandan art\u0131q h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 ehtiyac duymur. Ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r s\u00f6hb\u0259t etm\u0259kl\u0259 t\u0259nziml\u0259nir. Ail\u0259nin d\u0259y\u0259r yaratmas\u0131 \u00fczvl\u0259rin l\u0259yaq\u0259t anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na m\u00fcnasib\u0259tind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u00fcks\u0259k m\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri qoruyan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 etibarl\u0131 m\u00fchit yaratm\u0131\u015f olurlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259d\u0259 etibarl\u0131 m\u00fchit ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinin t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz v\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259n k\u0259nar t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li hadis\u0259l\u0259rin ail\u0259d\u0259n uzaq tutulaca\u011f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faq evd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz hesab etmirs\u0259, u\u015faq ba\u015fqa m\u00fchitl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcz tutur. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ail\u0259 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti f\u0259rqli m\u00fcst\u0259vid\u0259 inki\u015faf edir. Etibarl\u0131 m\u00fchitin t\u0259m\u0259li empatiya hissinin u\u015fa\u011fa n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rilm\u0259sidir. U\u015faq valideynl\u0259ri aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti oldu\u011fu kimi q\u0259bul edir. Nec\u0259 e\u015fidirs\u0259, el\u0259 d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259, el\u0259 d\u0259 davran\u0131r. Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 etibarl\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 h\u0259mr\u0259ylik varsa, ail\u0259d\u0259n k\u0259narda ya\u015fanan hadis\u0259l\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6hran yaratm\u0131r. Etibarl\u0131l\u0131q hissinin hakim oldu\u011fu ail\u0259l\u0259r xarici t\u0259sirl\u0259rd\u0259n xilas olmaq g\u00fcc\u00fcnd\u0259dirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259nin \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259ninin formala\u015fmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xarici t\u0259sirl\u0259r uzaq tutulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 inam v\u0259 h\u0259mr\u0259ylik qurulmazsa, \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r g\u00fccl\u00fc stress v\u0259 g\u0259rginlik ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. Bu insanlar \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 bel\u0259 etibar ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin d\u00fcsturu yoxdur, amma \u00fcsulu var. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin \u00fcsulu odur ki, h\u0259ll edilm\u0259li olan probleml\u0259r zaman\u0131nda h\u0259llini tapmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik m\u00fchitidir. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fchit ail\u0259 deyil, sistemdir. Bir qrup \u015f\u0259xsin m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tl\u0259 davam etdirdiyi m\u00fchit\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Ail\u0259d\u0259 maddi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi ehtiyaclar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131 ail\u0259nin xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmas\u0131n\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn ehtiyaclar qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259min edilm\u0259lidir. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc evind\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rli hiss ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs xo\u015fb\u0259xt olur, i\u015f f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti d\u0259 ona xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tirir v\u0259 faydal\u0131l\u0131q t\u0259sirini g\u00fccl\u0259ndirir. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin d\u00fcsturu yoxdur, amma \u00fcsulu var. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin \u00fcsulu odur ki, h\u0259ll edilm\u0259li olan probleml\u0259r zaman\u0131nda h\u0259ll edilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ail\u0259 m\u00fchitind\u0259 valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131na m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissini \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259s m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259lidir. U\u015faqlara da ya\u015flar\u0131na uy\u011fun olaraq m\u0259suliyy\u0259t qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259n, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259suliyy\u0259td\u0259n xilas ed\u0259n valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131ra bilm\u0259y\u0259n, daim ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n idar\u0259si alt\u0131nda olan \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tl\u0259r yeti\u015fdirirl\u0259r. 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