\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc “psixoloq” kimi t\u0259qdim ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r insanlarda bu sah\u0259 haqqda m\u0259nfi fikir, g\u00fcv\u0259nsizlik hissi yarad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cari.az Azmedia.Az sayt\u0131na istinad\u0259n m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f psixoloq N\u0259rmin A\u011fayevan\u0131n m\u00fcsahib\u0259ni siz\u0259 t\u0259qdim edir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– H\u0259r “dinl\u0259y\u0259n” psixoloqdurmu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Xeyr. Psixologiya “sad\u0259c\u0259 qulaq asmaq\u201d deyil \u2014 ill\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259hsil, etik bilik v\u0259 elmi baza t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Qulaq asmaq empatiyad\u0131r, m\u00fcalic\u0259 is\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259karl\u0131q. Psixoloq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn “qulaq asmaq\u201d passiv proses deyil. O, h\u0259r bir s\u00f6z\u00fcn strukturunu, intonasiyas\u0131n\u0131, fasil\u0259sini bel\u0259 psixodinamik m\u0259lumat kimi oxuyur. Y\u0259ni, dinl\u0259m\u0259k deyil, anlaman\u0131n elmini bilm\u0259k psixoloqu f\u0259rql\u0259ndirir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Psixoloq olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn diplom laz\u0131md\u0131rm\u0131, yoxsa “hiss etm\u0259k” kifay\u0259tdir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Diplom sad\u0259c\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259d deyil, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tin r\u0259smi tan\u0131nmas\u0131d\u0131r. “Hiss ed\u0259n\u201d \u00e7oxdur amma elmi bilikl\u0259 istiqam\u0259t ver\u0259n azd\u0131r. Psixoloq olmaq \u2013 empatiya il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, teoriya, metod, etik m\u0259suliyy\u0259t v\u0259 s\u00fckutun da dilini bilm\u0259k dem\u0259kdir. Y\u0259ni “hiss etm\u0259k\u201d ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131cd\u0131r amma elmi baza olmadan hiss \u2013 istiqam\u0259tsiz enerjidir. Diplom psixoloqun d\u0259rinliyini \u00f6l\u00e7m\u00fcr amma m\u0259suliyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131ma haqq\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Saxta psixoloqlar c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 n\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r vurur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Onlar insanlar\u0131n \u0259n h\u0259ssas anlar\u0131nda yanl\u0131\u015f m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259m psixoloji, h\u0259m d\u0259 emosional travma yarad\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259, insanlar b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fckd\u0259 bu sah\u0259y\u0259 inam\u0131n\u0131 itirir. Onlar t\u0259k bir insana yox, b\u00fct\u00fcn sah\u0259y\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r vururlar. Pasient yanl\u0131\u015f yana\u015fmadan sonra “psixoloqlara inanm\u0131ram\u201d deyir \u2014 v\u0259 bel\u0259c\u0259, bir \u015f\u0259xsin s\u0259hvi y\u00fczl\u0259rl\u0259 insan\u0131n k\u00f6m\u0259k axtar\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 dayand\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Bir insan\u0131 psixoloqdan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131rmaq n\u0259 dem\u0259kdir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Bu, birinin sa\u011falma \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 \u0259lind\u0259n almaqd\u0131r. Saxta yana\u015fma bir pasienti b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 ill\u0259rl\u0259 real k\u00f6m\u0259kd\u0259n uzaq saxlay\u0131r. Psixoloqdan uzaqla\u015fan insan, \u0259slind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fmaq f\u00fcrs\u0259tini itirir. Bu, sad\u0259c\u0259 bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259t itkisi deyil \u2013 etimad itkisidir. V\u0259 itirilmi\u015f etimad, \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r terapiyadan da \u00e7\u0259tin b\u0259rpa olunur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Niy\u0259 insanlar saxta psixoloqlara inan\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar “\u00e7\u0259tin suallara asan cavab\u201d v\u0259d edirl\u0259r. Amma psixologiyada asan yol yoxdur \u2014 d\u0259rin d\u0259yi\u015fiklik s\u0259bir v\u0259 sistemli yana\u015fma t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Onlar elm deyil, \u00fcmid sat\u0131rlar. Elmi psixologiya s\u0259ni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259, \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259, d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r \u2014 saxta psixoloq is\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 “haz\u0131r rahatl\u0131q\u201d v\u0259d edir. V\u0259 insan a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131n ortas\u0131nda f\u0259rq qoymur: do\u011fru k\u00f6m\u0259kdirmi, yoxsa sad\u0259c\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l c\u00fcml\u0259. \u0130nsanlar saxta psixoloqlara inan\u0131r, onlar sakitl\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259yi sevir, sa\u011falma\u011f\u0131 yox. \u00c7\u00fcnki “ke\u00e7\u0259c\u0259k\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc e\u015fitm\u0259k, s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n daha asand\u0131r. Saxta psixoloqlar\u0131n \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00fcc\u00fc \u2014 insanlar\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131ndan qazanc \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259l\u0259ridir. \u018fn b\u00f6y\u00fck z\u0259r\u0259ri is\u0259 \u2013 elmi bilikl\u0259 qurulan etimad\u0131 y\u0131xmalar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u018fg\u0259r bir psixoloq seansda a\u011flad\u0131rsa, q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131rsa \u2014 bu normald\u0131rm\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Q\u0259tiyy\u0259n deyil. Etik qaydalarda pasientin al\u00e7ald\u0131lmas\u0131, emosional z\u0259rb\u0259 alt\u0131nda saxlanmas\u0131 psixoloji zorak\u0131l\u0131q say\u0131l\u0131r. He\u00e7 bir pe\u015f\u0259kar psixoloq s\u0259nin a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131 “\u015fok effekti\u201d il\u0259 oyatmaz. Bu, elmi yana\u015fma deyil \u2014 emosional zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r. S\u0259ni a\u011fladan, \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ran biri s\u0259ni sa\u011faltm\u0131r, sad\u0259c\u0259 \u00f6z g\u00fccs\u00fczl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc “m\u00fcdaxil\u0259\u201d ad\u0131 il\u0259 gizl\u0259dir. Terapiya \u2013 s\u0259ssiz, amma d\u0259rin prosesdir. Psixoloq s\u0259ni s\u0131nd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, s\u0259ni \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 b\u0259rpa etm\u0259yin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn oradad\u0131r. He\u00e7 kim s\u0259nin a\u011fr\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259n s\u0259ni zorla \u00e7\u0131xarmamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fsl psixoloq s\u0259ni a\u011flatmaqla deyil, susdu\u011fun yeri anlamas\u0131yla f\u0259rql\u0259nir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– S\u0259n \u00e7ox g\u00fccl\u00fcs\u0259n, \u00f6z\u00fcn ke\u00e7\u0259rs\u0259n\u2019 \u2013 bu, terapiyad\u0131rm\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Xeyr. Bu, motivasiya c\u00fcml\u0259sidir, amma psixoloji yard\u0131m deyil. Terapiya problemi tan\u0131y\u0131r, s\u0259b\u0259bi tap\u0131r v\u0259 elmi \u0259sasla h\u0259ll edir. Saxta psixoloqlar\u0131n istifad\u0259 etdiyi bir metoddur. H\u0259tda b\u0259z\u0259n bel\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k pasiyenti \u0259l\u0259 almaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r, h\u0259tta b\u0259z\u0259n psixoloq pasiyentl\u0259 birlikd\u0259 a\u011flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Bu \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r niy\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7oxal\u0131b?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u00c7\u00fcnki psixologiya populyarla\u015f\u0131b, amma n\u0259zar\u0259t sistemi z\u0259ifdir. H\u0259r k\u0259s sosial mediada “psixoloq\u201d etiketi il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Yada ki oturdu\u011fumuz yerd\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t edib pul qazanacay\u0131q d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si il\u0259 bura meyl edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u018fsl psixoloqla saxta psixoloqu nec\u0259 ay\u0131rmaq olar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– \u018fsl psixoloq siz\u0259 “d\u0259yi\u015f, d\u00fcz\u0259l\u201d dem\u0259z, n\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bel\u0259 hiss etdiyinizi ara\u015fd\u0131rar. O, sizi y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirm\u0259z \u2014 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc tapma\u011f\u0131n\u0131za k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Bu saxtakarl\u0131\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 n\u0259 etm\u0259liyik?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
– Maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259, ictimai n\u0259zar\u0259t v\u0259 etik prinsipl\u0259ri qorumaq. H\u0259r bir psixoloq s\u00fckutla deyil, s\u00f6zl\u0259 v\u0259 duru\u015fla f\u0259rq yaratmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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